Dear future partner,
I’m glad you are here.
Instead of having my fingers write as fast as possible to talk about who I was and who I think I could be, I want to know who you are today:
Your dreams, your goals, your expectations, your ego, and all in between your cellular composition. I also want to know how was your childhood, the teenage years, and how growing up was for you (and how do you keep your child-like playfulness still alive).
People would feel overwhelmed by the level of voracity I have to know an individual. People that know me, pray for you to be able to handle the level of attention I could ask of you. I am afraid I could be too intrusive with wanting to consume all of you, in the most positive way possible.
I wish for you to grow alongside me, and if it is not possible, to at least have been a person that helped you to feel assertive about your essence.
- What is your definition of a relationship?
- What is your perspective of how love looks like?
- Which way is the way you prefer to be shown affection?
Maybe we could have outdated definitions or ideas of this idealized romantic relationship, even might not have a clear answer to my above questions, but if you can at least ask the opposite, how it doesn’t look like, you might…