Why are Mindfulness exercises so hard to use?

Focus on the present moment and what brings you fulfillment.

Erika Becerra
4 min readMay 8, 2023
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Have you ever tried practicing mindfulness during exercise or a guided meditation session, but found it difficult to stay focused or feel like it wasn’t effective? Perhaps you weren’t engaging in a mindful exercise or session that was well-suited for you.

Mindfulness has become a popular tool for managing stress and improving overall well-being. It involves being present in the moment, without judgment, and with a curious and accepting attitude.

Mindful exercise and meditation sessions can be beneficial for improving mental and physical health, but not all exercises or sessions are created equal.

Mindfulness exercises can be difficult to use because they require a significant amount of focus and concentration. Being present in the moment can be difficult to maintain this kind of focus, especially when faced with stressful situations or life events.

If you are new to mindful attention, it can be a challenge to stay focused on the present moment when there are so many things going on around you. If it’s your first time trying to practice mindfulness, it may take a few attempts before you start to feel comfortable.

It’s also important to remember that mindfulness is an ongoing practice, and not something that can be done once and mastered.

It requires patience and practice in order to see the positive effects of your efforts.

Distractions can also be a major obstacle when trying to concentrate on mindfulness exercises. It’s normal, is just a matter of consistency, but what makes a good mindful exercise or a useful mindful session?

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Letting go of unrealistic expectations, whether they come from others or oneself

Society glorifies success and achievement, often promoting a certain image of what it means to be successful. We’re told that we need to have a certain job, make a certain amount of money, or look a certain way to be considered successful. These adaptable conduct of creating expectations according to what success should look like, can be overwhelming and can cause feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt even when trying something new and personal as mindfulness.

To truly reap the benefits of mindfulness during exercise or meditation, it’s important to find a practice that resonates with you and aligns with your goals.

Let’s explore elements that make a good mindful exercise or a useful mindful session, so you can choose the practice that’s right for you.

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Struggling with mindfulness exercises? Here’s what to do.

Setting aside just a few minutes each day to focus on being mindful can help you become more aware of the present moment, and that’s all you need. If it’s for a minute or 5 minutes, just starting is what’s important.

Many people find it challenging to quiet their minds and stay present in the moment without getting distracted by thoughts or external stimuli.

Therefore, here are some examples of what to do before or during your mindfulness session:

Intention

Having a clear intention for your mindful exercise or session is important for it to be effective. Whether it’s to calm the mind, reduce stress, or improve focus, setting an intention can help you stay focused and motivated.

Breathwork

Breathwork is a key element of mindfulness exercises. Focusing on the breath helps to bring you into the present moment and calm the mind. Practicing deep breathing techniques, such as diaphragmatic breathing, can also help to reduce stress and anxiety.

Body Awareness

Mindful exercises often involve paying attention to physical sensations in the body. This can involve a body scan, where you check in with each part of your body and notice any sensations or tension. By bringing awareness to physical sensations, you can release tension and become more present in the moment.

Non-Judgmental Awareness

Mindfulness involves observing thoughts and emotions without judgment. By cultivating non-judgmental awareness, you can learn to let go of negative thoughts and emotions and become more accepting of yourself and others.

Gratitude

Gratitude is a powerful emotion that can help to shift your focus from negative to positive. Incorporating gratitude into your mindful exercises or sessions can help you to cultivate a more positive mindset and improve your overall sense of well-being.

Movement

Mindful movement practices, such as yoga or tai chi, can help to increase body awareness, reduce stress, and improve flexibility and balance. Incorporating movement into your mindful practice can also help to release physical tension and increase energy levels.

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Consistency is key when it comes to mindfulness practices

Incorporating mindful exercises or sessions into your daily routine can help you to cultivate a more mindful and present mindset, reduce stress, and improve overall well-being.

Additionally, mindfulness involves accepting and non-judgmentally observing one’s thoughts and emotions, which can be uncomfortable or difficult for some individuals.

Finally, mindfulness practices require consistent effort and dedication, which can be challenging to maintain in a busy or stressful lifestyle. In short, keep practicing with a set intention, and try to act on how it would be to not measure how good the time you’ve done.

Allow yourself to focus on anything that allows your mind to feel fulfilled in the moment.

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Erika Becerra

Have a lot in my mind between life, OCD, therapy and my love for dogs